There is no distinction between miss and mrs in mourning.
We will use the hem of the coat for five dyed-outs of Kurohaburtae or Kurochirimen(black crape).
White od Habutae
Half-necked is White Shiosehabutae.
A black rinzu, or fukuro-obi of monrinzu , or Nagoya obi which is closed in both summer and winter.
Patterns are lotus, Sanskrit, waves, etc., do not use kichiyo pattern.
Obiime(Banded): Maruguke (round)
Zori(Sandals) and bags: cloth made
Everything black is legitimate, but white would do as well.